Ceremonies

Ceremonies built around your relationships, not the other way round

Every ceremony below is fully bespoke. If what you want isn't listed, it almost certainly still fits — tell me about it.

What I create

Celebrant reading from ceremony folder during an outdoor commitment ceremony

Commitment Ceremonies

Bespoke celebrations for all shapes of love — couples, triads, polycules, and alternative unions.

Chosen family gathering celebrating an adult name-claiming ceremony

Friendship Commitments & Chosen Family

Platonic bonds made formal: co-housing pledges, queerplatonic partnerships, and life-partnership vows between people who chose each other.

Outdoor family gathering celebrating on a beach at sunset.

Inclusive Naming Ceremonies

Welcoming children into multi-parent and non-traditional families, plus adult name-claiming and transition celebrations held with real ceremony.

"A New Chapter" spelled out in wooden tiles on a wooden board.

Relationship Renewals & Dynamic Shifts

Marking evolving agreements, nesting changes, new anchor partners, de-escalations honoured with care, and polyamorous anniversaries worth naming.

Bizzy stands with a stage microphone and warm event lighting for reception hosting

MC & Event Hosting

Warm, charismatic hosting for celebrations, gatherings, community galas, and stage events — room-holding, pacing, and announcements that stay inclusive and tailored to your people.

Sunbeams streaming through the clouds, creating a bird flying shape, from a mountain view

Celebrations of Life & Memorials

Personal, human-centered services that honour your loved one, their chosen family and their real stories.

Bizzy Day leading a handfasting ceremony for two people in a stone barn

Rituals we can weave in

  • Multi-strand handfasting

    One cord per person or per bond, braided by your people, colours chosen for what each thread carries.

  • Element blending

    Sand, soil, water or ink from places that hold meaning, poured together into one vessel.

  • Circle of voices

    Metamours, comets and chosen family speak affirmations around you rather than watching from rows.

  • Vow book exchange

    Written vows swapped and signed by everyone present — including partners who joined the story later.